Wednesday, February 14, 2018

Sister is almost 3-birthday party

Since there was apparently something in the water early to mid 2014, there was a baby boom in February and March of 2015.  Lots of little girls were born and friends were made.  In the event of less parties to attend, us mothers decided we'd join forces and party together.

Hence joined birthday party #2 for 4 three year old little girls.  Did that make sense?
 Maggie, Nora, Emery, and Annie
 We still need to work on 3 fingers!
 We used the cafeteria/multi purpose building at the school.
 The favors...your very own spanking spoon!
 Musical chairs without the chairs.  This was a hit.  Your number gets called, you get a prize.
 Puddin and Pops
 Annie and Aunt Ashley
 Anna Greer aka Geer came!
 Maggie
 Annie
 Emery
 Nora
 Annie decided she didn't like the fancy cupcake and opted for a white one instead!
 The cousins
 Her white one
Bobba
 Puddin aka Puh
4 generations
 Molly Cate, Ken, me, and Sister
Party moms- Jennifer, me, Linsey, Callie
Aunt Ashley said, "I love making three year old's dreams come true!"  A life sized doll.
Happy Birthday party day from these three girls!!!!!

Monday, February 12, 2018

Lamar Happenings Lately

I'm alive.  I'm alive.  I'M ALIVE!!!!!!  Blogging seems to be so difficult for me lately.  I need a few more hours in the day to get everything done...getting up before 5:00 AM isn't an option though!  

So, a few days later than previously scheduled, the kiddos got to have their 100th day of school.  The lovely inclement weather put them back a bit.  John Brantley's class doesn't dress up like old folks, rather they wear a cape with 100 items on it.  The first attempt I tried was stickers, but they fell off.  So round two was google eyes.  I think it was just right.
 Last weekend Dad, Patty, and the cousins had a slumber party at our house.  After showers they watched Home Alone 3 and laughed the entire time.  Ford has seen it enough to give you spoilers when a funny part is about to happen.
Caroline (9), Annie (2...almost 3), Ford (8), Jack (7), Bitty (5), and Molly Cate (11)
 Saturday we went to the farm to gator ride and shoot at random armadillos. 
 How Annie can be found watching TV.
 So Dad has decided to sell his house and move to Laurel with Patty.  I guess the 288 mile difference in their houses, the going back and forth, and cleaning of two locations isn't fun anymore...so he's moving.  With that being said, I have been getting treasures out of his attic.  Annie is super pleased to have a box of old, dry rotted Barbies, to play with.
 This strict momma is PROUD of her math whiz.  Unlike his mother, he loves math, understands math, and excels in math.  He was the first one in his class to orally say all of his multiplication families (0-12) to his teacher.  Therefore, he will get 3 scoops of ice cream with a cherry on top.
 Sister is still loving gymnastics  (red turtle neck).
 We celebrated BoomPa's 67th birthday last week with a family supper night at Dale's.
 The crew minus Fancy who was sad because he was in Jackson.
 Litter.  Ohhhhhhhhhh I hate litter.  Where we live is apparently an area that people like to chunk their drinks, bags, and wrappers out the window.  I get so tired of looking at it.  Last week I took 5 Wal-Mart sacks down there to clean up.  I didn't bring enough because there was still junk down there.  I wish litter bugs would always get caught and have to pay a stiff fine.
 So we model while in the tub....
 Fast forward a week since I first started this post, Trey and I went to Clarksdale to Delta Supper Club.
 Seth and Julie invited us....
 I had to take Bitty back to the eye doctor for a check up post glasses.  One eye is 20/20.  One is is 20/40.  She suggested eye therapy.  Well, I couldn't get an appointment until the end of March for this and in the mean time Bitty said, "Sometimes I see two of everything."  If that doesn't sound the alarms I don't know what will.  I know about this all too well because when I was little I saw two of everything if i focused hard enough.  I decided to patch his glasses to force him to use his weaker eye until we get to eye therapy.  We will only do this sometimes at home.  And I'm only doing this because this is what they did for me as a child.  We gotta make that weak eye stronger.
 Pops and Bit
 Upward has been a lot of fun this year.  Amazingly, we have won every game thus far.  Our team has progressed nicely and they have fun playing.
 My #13
 Birthday party post to come.....

Thursday, February 1, 2018

You're too strict

I have mom brain here lately, meaning I can't remember squat.  The struggle is real.  Trey is constantly telling me not to go crazy on him.  I put things in the wrong places, I repeat myself, and I honestly can't remember if I've done stuff sometimes.  For instance, I will stand in front of the cabinet and wonder if I've taken my vitamin or not.  I hope this is all normal.  It could be due to sleep deprivation.  No, I don't have a newborn, but I play musical beds all night long.  Annie wakes me up about two times a night wanting me to sleep in her bed.  Buying her a queen sized bed was one of my better moves.  I sleep in there about half of the night every night.  All I want for Valentines, Mother's Day, my birthday, Christmas, Labor Day, Flag Day, and Halloween is SLEEP!

So Annie is full of energy and herself.  She is always on the move, jabbering, dancing, squealing, and flipping.  I decided to try her out at gymnastics.
 To say she loved it would be an understatement.  She was obsessed.  She was all over the place.  She was running, jumping, and flipping.
 She was begging to go back the next day.  My videos are priceless!!!!!!
 We've also been suffering from a runny nose, and a mysterious red cheek.  I think she fell at church on Sunday.  It was normal before Sunday School and after big church it was red.
 They're all growing so much.  They've all got drastically different personalities.  Sometimes you must document their cuteness before school.
 Sleepy.  Sticky.  Sucker.
 This child.  Poor first born.  I push him.  I expect sooooo much out of him.  I treat him like he's older than 8.  I expect him to be perfect too much.  He's a good kid.  He's smart.  He's kind, tenderhearted, caring, and a rule follower.  Ford is a pleaser.

The other night I was lying in Annie's bed with her until she fell asleep.  The boys were in her bed too.  After Annie was fast asleep I kissed Bit and went over to kiss Ford goodnight.  He quickly pulled the pillow over his face so I couldn't see him.  I pulled it off and he was crying.  I snuggled up beside him to find out what was wrong.  He said, "You're too strict on me."  It was a vague but true statement.  I didn't know what exactly he meant by too strict.  But we talked.  I told him I wasn't going to back down on him academically.  I told him I knew what he was capable of (All A's) and I didn't want him doing anything but his best.  I explained that one day he'd have a family and be the leader of the household...he would be expected to support his family.  I apologized for not having enough patience while I am playing a single mom since daddy is in session.  We talked about him being a good example for the littles because they'll follow his lead by acting out, not minding the first time, etc.  I hope after our conversation he understood my "strict ways" better.

I'll own it.  I am strict.  Strict is good.  This is a crazy, scary world we live in.
 I just really like that he calls a restaurant a rest-er-naunt.
 As if three kids weren't a lot to manage, we have a dog.  A wild dog.  A dog who is the poster child for ADHD.  I think he needs meds.  I swear dealing with him makes me think I need meds, and I am kind of anti-medicine.  He's a dog who acts like a mix between a cat or rabbit too.  Yesterday he killed 3 birds.  The kids saw this female cardinal on the steps.  They went out to inspect and then I told them to come inside because Otis had obviously done something to it.  Within seconds Otis, the dog, rounded the corner, grabbed the bird, feathers went flying, and the kids went insane.  I mean traumatized.  Needless to say, he slept outside last night because I wasn't cleaning up throw up.  The list of my dog complaints could go on a mile long.  If you want my German Wirehaired Pointer that's 6 months old YOU CAN HAVE HIM!!!!!
 Big Boy went to the All A's Breakfast this morning!
 I took the boys to get haircuts after school   Bitty wanted a buzz cut.  I refused to give in to such.  We compromised on some gel.
 I think he thought he looked cool.  He wants some "hair clay" so he can fix his hair like Mrs. Rachel did.
 I thought only women needed hair products!!!!!
 And not to leave Bitty out on the pushing, good grades, and doing his best etc., I have been doing flashcards with him.  I made these when Ford was his age and pulled them out.  Well, actually, I had a list on my pantry door.  I decided he'd memorized them so the cards seemed like a better idea.  It wrecked his world!!!!!!!!  I mean worse than food.  Crying.  The ugly cry.  Screaming.  Carrying on and such.  But I am a tough momma, and I didn't care.  We pushed.  We persevered.  He read all of these twice today and "AM" was the only one that gave him problems.  I'll take that!

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